Thursday 13 February 2014

ATTENTION: Another Valentine Question!!!

So here we are again, with another question for this Valentine’s Day. There is this realization in every mind that the matters of heart knows no boundaries, no rules or restrictions. But the most essential issue that hovers in many minds these days is that is love really restricted to one person only? Or can we fall in love more than once and that too at the same time?

Well, what do you have to say about falling in love with two persons simultaneously? Love is definitely not only about attraction or about commitment or intimacy. In fact, it’s the blend of all three! A perfect love relation beholds the faultless balance of passion, intimacy and commitment. It’s a simple science of keeping the ideal blend among these three components in order to benefit from a complete love relation.

But still the question arises that what if your attraction and your intimacy and commitment find their abode in two separate people. How would you choose between these feelings and if you fail to choose, then how you would maintain the equilibrium in your feelings. It sounds selfish but we all know that no one holds a scale to measure the intensity one feels when fallen in love. Its the heart that rules over our mind. So, if its injustice in the minds of people, its actually a fair deal in love!  

We believe that love happens only once and when it happens, you know you have found ‘the one’. And only when you start believing that your life is complete, suddenly you find someone who too is meant to be with you. And you helplessly get drawn to that person in no time. It’s a hard deal to choose then, no doubt, because it’s your survival at stake when it comes to loosing either of them. How do you decide then?

Would you choose between your heart and soul?
 Would you split yourself apart in two and end up incomplete forever?
 Or would you try to make the two ends meet at some point where you could find the equilibrium